29.6.11

When dream comes true

29.06.11 in Korea.

Something I have been waiting for 7 years comes true. I am so happy now until I want to tell everybody. But need to double confirm again when I back to Kuching.

This will be a new journey to me. I hope everything will be fine.

I want to tell the dream I really love him/her.

Thanks Buddha.

21.6.11

So tired

My leg is so tired. Been walking non stop and buying non stop since this morning. We only went to Ewha woman's university and myyengdong for shopping.

I bought about 50 pieces of face mask, 5 BB cream, 1 shirt, 1 eye cream and get a lot of free samples.

We had our most expensive dinner ever in Korea today. We spent 30000won for grilled pork. But the pork really delicious loh. No regret lah.

Tomorrow I planed to go visit Namsan tower.

Then, we have to take the airport bus to incheon airport again. Then take the free shuttle bus to incheon beach hotel. Our tour will starts the next day after tomorrow. Hope everything will be fine.

We are landed in Incheon and Seoul

Last night, we reached incheon airport at 9.45pm. After custom checked, we managed to take the last 2nd bus to myeongdong. This is really a great experience.

After 1 hour's ride, we reached myeongdong train station at 11pm. Then we spent about 1/2 hour walk to namsan guesthouse.

The receptionist at first gave us room 302 but when we opened the door, the room is messed up. So we changed to 512. After settling down, we went for our first dinner at twooty. We ordered grilled chicken with some spicy sauce. You know how much this meal costs us? Around rm60. Scary leh???

I will try to upload photos after I back to Kuching.

20.6.11

Going to fly soon

This is the first time when I buy nothing at all in KL except food. This is unusual to me, indeed.

I spent most of my time watching ntv7 in the hotel and sleeping tight. This is really a relax trip, isn't it?

This morning we woke up at 8.15am, went out have a breakfast, checked out at 10am. Took a cab to KL central at RM20, took bus to LCCT at RM22. We reached LCCT at around 11.45am. We have quite ample time to check in our flight at 1.55pm to incheon, Korea.

Now we are waiting for boarding.

See u guys 11 days later.

19.6.11

Flying again

又到了飞行的季节。

这一次决定全部都放下,好好的享受这2个礼拜的假期。

这一次再也不是一个人,而是爱相随。

希望我们旅途愉快。

12.6.11

爱遗失了,就回不去了。。。

Hello! 好久不见, 有没有想我啊?  

我不见的这几天,不是在忙公事,也不是因为家里发生什么事情。我只是突然间爱上了“犀利人妻”,每天准时回家,快快吃饱,就窝在沙发上看电视。

会爱上“犀利人妻”应该是因为我也是人妻的关系吧?!身为人妻,最怕的就是撞小三了吧?!

以前,没看这出戏前,别人问我如果我的婚姻出现了第三者,我会怎么做。我二话不说就说"离婚”!  我总认为爱不见了,为什么还要勉强在一起。与其一直拖着两个人痛苦,还不如速战速决,快刀斩乱麻。

可是,如果这事情真的是发生在我的身上,我真的能走得那么潇洒吗?那我们的孩子该怎么办?

看了这出戏后,让我有一点省视。女主角从一个老公就是他的一切的家庭主妇,历经发现老公外遇的第三者竟然是自己表妹,无论自己做了什么都无法挽回老公的心,到后来借助朋友的力量开始发掘自己的优点,进而慢慢放下心里头的怨气,回向给曾经伤害他的两个人,她用她独有的善良温暖了每一个人的心。在孩子面前,她永远不说一句她前夫的坏话,这一点就很值得我反省。

我承认,在孩子面前不说前夫的一句坏话,我应该是做不到的。我真的是没有那么大量。可是一直说前夫的不是,真的对孩子的心灵会留下不好的阴影。这门功课,我真的得好好学起来。

对于婚姻,如果真的有第三者介入,我不晓得我还会不会执着的要离婚。也许,有些人会劝我试着挽回吧?!至少,为了孩子而努力。 可是,对于爱情,我一直是自私的。我真的没办法接受一个出轨过的男人还睡在我的身边,这要我情何以堪?所以,我常对我的男人说,如果你真的要出轨,就要保证不让我知道,否则你就要有家破人亡的准备。 

我一直都是敢爱敢恨的一个人。婚姻本来就要互相尊重和体谅,你出轨了,就表示我们之间的尊重不见了,那我也没必要再为你死守着吧!

所以男人啊,一定要搞清楚你爱的是什么样的女人。要出轨前,真的是要三思呀!